Free Resources

Welcome to the library—a gentle space to reconnect with your body.

I know that feeling at home in your body—especially your most intimate parts—can be challenging. Many of us were never shown what’s normal, let alone encouraged to explore or celebrate the uniqueness of our sexual anatomy.

This library exists to change that.

Here, you’ll find links to trusted resources that showcase the natural diversity of vulvas, labia, breasts, and other intimate anatomy. It’s a quiet invitation to move past shame or self-criticism and toward understanding, curiosity, and even appreciation.

There is no “perfect.” There is only you—and every variation of real, lived bodies.

Take your time. Explore what you need. Come back whenever you want.

Content note: Many of the links below contain real images of diverse anatomy. Please take your time,
and explore only what feels safe and supportive for you.

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    THE LABIA LIBRARY

    Have you ever wondered “Is my vagina normal?” Lots of women have. The Labia Library is about showing you that, just like any other part of the body, labia come in all shapes and sizes. They’re also really important in sex and they keep your vagina healthy.

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    FLIP THROUGH MY FLAPS

    ELLIE SEDGWIG is showing the world how beautiful and unique we all are! Labia come in all different shapes and sizes. Labia can be long or short, wrinkly or smooth and are often a different colour to the rest of your skin tone. One side is often longer than the other, consistent with the asymmetry of most body parts.

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    THE GREAT WALL OF VULVA

    A resource to view in close-up the amazing variety seen across the hundreds of casts Jamie McCartney has made. Unlike photographs of genitals these pure white plaster casts bear no relation to pornography and may be viewed at any age, with adult supervision. The lack of colour also cleverly removes any issues of race.

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  • Close-up of a bronze statue of a woman with arms raised.

    BROWSE MY BOOBS

    An incredible gallery by "Comfortable in my skin" founder ELLIE SEDGWICK. The most commonly asked question I get in photoshoots is “am I normal?” I have uploaded a few pictures here on the website so the world can have a flip through and see how we are all so beautifully different and that’s what makes us normal.

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  • Partially peeled banana with a pixelated section on a yellow background.

    SOLICITED DICK PICKS

    Solicited Dick Picks by photographer ELLIE SEDGWICK, founder of "Comfortable in my skin" Just like vulva’s and vagina’s, penises are different too! For the first time during Sexpo in Brisbane, I took photos of dicks! I have also added photos from Sydney Sexpo. Thanks to the penis owners for being some of the first I’ve photographed for the Comfortable In My Skin movement! We love all parts of the body.

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  • Black and white photo of a person's hand resting on a rumpled bed sheet with dramatic lighting.

    SPICY AUDIOBOOKS & ROMANTIC FICTION

    Designed with women in mind by female co-founders Gina Gutierrez and Faye Keegan, Dipsea is an audio app for sexual wellness filled with short, sexy audio stories.
    Building a universe of spicy audiobooks and romantic fiction, where the female gaze is always front and centre.

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